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After looking back on one particular journal I posted the other year ago. lol  Questionning.You know I've been asking myself for quite some time...
Is it wrong that most dA users who I watch are mostly girls (I'm not a pervert lol)? I ask because I've currently looked back on how many people I've subscribed to and yeah, the majority are women. I probably shouldn't be too worried about it because I should make an effort to make more friends and join in conversations a lot more often (although, I'm not a good conversationalist outside the internet but I do like to listen to what others are saying), it doesn't really matter what gender anyone is anyway. ^^;


I realise now I'm not ashamed to admit that I do chat to a lot of girls here than I do guys. XD I guess I was pretty nervous at the time thinking if you, my watchers/visitors were okay with that. ^^; Now I'm not some player that scores with loads of women, far from that. :lmao: In fact, a lot of women I have chatted to over time are really nice people and have made mutual friends with them since then, even if we never met in person before haha. :heart: :aww:

Not to say I don't chat to boys mind you, quite a few guys on this site are some of my favourite artists whom I've chatted to frequently as well. :nod: Those being;
So yeah, that's all I wanted to say. ^^ Thanks for reading! :D
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BecSparrow Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2017
I tend to find there are more girls on DA anyway? Maybe that's just my experience.

AM I NOT MANLY ENOUGH FOR YOU?? *flexes* >___>
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2017  Hobbyist
It doesn't bother me all that much honestly. :)

YOU ARE MAGNIFICENT NO MATTER WHAT!! :iconrubcheeksplz:
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LinkerLuis Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017   Digital Artist
I don't see anything wrong with that.

On my part, I assume every user is a male, or I speak to everyone in a gender neutral tone, unless I know them well enough to be able to tell the difference. It's not easy to tell just by username and icon :giggle:

What if I've been lying this whole time and I'm not really a Linker, but a Tabby Tabby laugh 


Plot twist! :rofl:
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Edited Mar 14, 2017  Hobbyist
Not at all. :nod:

And I see, I don't naturally assume a user's gender until I get to know that person more often (even if they do classify what their gender is on their profile).

Talk about revelation if that were true! :iconcannotevenplz:
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LinkerLuis Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2017   Digital Artist
I think it's only when I want to address them as "Thanks dude" that I take the time to check. Just in case I'm not calling girls "dude" or something like that  XD Or also when I want to thank them by their real name.

There are other similar cases, but I don't recall another one at the moment :o
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2017  Hobbyist
Strangely enough, I have a habit on saying 'No problem' to the guys and 'You're welcome' to the girls. XD

And that's fine. ;P
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blueyoshiegg Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Concerning the people that I watch, I'd say mine is fairly mixed...and I think it's the same for those who kindly watch me too! :aww:
It's probably the same sort of setup with those that I chat too frequently too :D

Oh, thanks for the mention, buddy! :highfive: ^^ I always love chatting with fellow gamers and artists here! :XD:
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist
Ah I see, even my watch list is fairly mixed also. ;v; I guess I'm just happy with the amount of people I follow regardless of their gender. XD

And no worries man! :)
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blueyoshiegg Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Hehee~ yeah, it's all good! ^^

:giggle: :w00t:
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist
Indeed so heheh. ;P

:happybounce: :dance:
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blueyoshiegg Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:XD: :XD:
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist
:D :meow:
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gizmo01 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thats kind how I started around her on DA :)
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist
Ah, so we're both in the same league then. XD
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gizmo01 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I guess so, but I dont want to stay quiet and make myself a stranger around here :D 
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist
Same, that was pretty much the old me back when I used to not interact with anyone here. D:
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gizmo01 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Personly I found it rather easy to talk to people thru social medias.
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist
Very much so, especially now that I've made a gigantic u turn over time and have no issues with anyone I fancy chatting with. :nod:
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SweetDream87 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017
So? You talk with more girls. Nothing to be ashamed of. You talk to who you wanna talk to. 
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SafeGaming89 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist
Well of course, I was only looking back on my previous journal and stated I'm not bothered that I chat to a lot of girls.
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